Male (boys/gentlemen/men) and female (girls/ladies/women) undoubtedly show significant differences in a plenitude of aspects. Today I came across one more TV drama that talks a great deal about male and female.
Well one of the message being disseminated is the difference between instinct and rationality. Guess which gender is identified with instinct or vice versa. Undeniably, female is labeled with instinct and male is labeled with rationality. For unknown reason, instinct is the only sense that can only be found in female. This sense is innate and can be quite accurate at time. For men, if you are ambivalent or ambiguous in interpreting a particular instance, try to seek help from your surrounding females. They will construe the incident based on instinct and of course some common sense. Male may argue that sometimes female are too emotional and often act without thinking twice. Thus, the advice given may sound absurd or ridiculous to them. They prefer to analyze and solve the problem from their perspectives. But somehow why should we go on a circuitous way to tackle a problem though a sense of instinct might lend a helping hand? So men, don’t be too headstrong with your decision because advice from women won’t do you any harm after all.
Well one of the message being disseminated is the difference between instinct and rationality. Guess which gender is identified with instinct or vice versa. Undeniably, female is labeled with instinct and male is labeled with rationality. For unknown reason, instinct is the only sense that can only be found in female. This sense is innate and can be quite accurate at time. For men, if you are ambivalent or ambiguous in interpreting a particular instance, try to seek help from your surrounding females. They will construe the incident based on instinct and of course some common sense. Male may argue that sometimes female are too emotional and often act without thinking twice. Thus, the advice given may sound absurd or ridiculous to them. They prefer to analyze and solve the problem from their perspectives. But somehow why should we go on a circuitous way to tackle a problem though a sense of instinct might lend a helping hand? So men, don’t be too headstrong with your decision because advice from women won’t do you any harm after all.
From men’s perspective, rationality is still fundamental and essential to tackle a problem effectively. For them, a rushed decision without proper analysis will only exacerbate a situation. Thus, they tend to remain calm when a quandary approaches and come out with the best solution after much efforts of analysis and strategy mapping. Female might perceive that these efforts will consume too much time and by the time the male come to the omega stage, things have become worse and nothing can be done. They will follow their instinct without thinking of the consequences of their actions. But somehow decisions made by instincts result in flaws and efforts have to be made to compensate for mistakes. This will definitely cause a great spiritual toil.
To Be Continued.
The unago was extremely delicious. This plate of unagi is definitely not enough for 4gluttons.
At night, we had BBQ at Wui Yarn’s grandma’s house. Born at Muar which is famous for otak-otak, this was the first time I grilled my own otak-otak. We ate a lot there until Jyo Lyn and Wui Yarn developed phobia towards to otak-otak. At Inti, they craved for otak-otak and asked me to treat them once I go back. This time they urged me not to buy otak-otak after this cz they need time to eliminate the phobia. Just imagine how many otak-otak we had ate that night until people could develop phobia towards it.
